Is Your Wish a ‘Should’ or a ' Must’ ?

For most people, achieving anything is rarely a must.They would like to lose weight, but it is not a must. They would love to make more money, but it is not a must.. They wish they could take charge of their lives,but it is not a must ,The moment something becomes a ‘should’ instead of a‘must’, you will rarely achieve it. You will always find a way to put it off or to quit the moment you meet resistance.

People like Sylvester Stallone, Steven Spielberg or DonaldTrump who achieve success are not born more focused, more disciplined or more lucky than the average person. What makes them different is that they make their goals a must for themselves.They are not willing to accept anything less than the best.So let me ask you a question. Are your dreams and goals an absolute must or are they just weak desires that you can live without? Have you been truly committed to do whatever it takes in the past or have you quit and given yourself excuses along the way?

Anything You Ever Achieved in the Past, Was a Must.If you have achieved nothing of ‘worth’ up till now,then nothing has ever been a ‘must’ in your life.

Have you ever put off doing certain important things in your life? I’m sure you have. However, have there been things you have put off that you eventually got round to doing? Like writing a report, filing your tax returns or signing up for an exercise program. But one day, you finally finished that report,filed your tax returns, and began that exercise program.Well, what made you get them done eventually? Was it because things got to the stage where it became a ‘must’ for you? You had to get that report done or risk losing a contract and being fired,you had to file your tax returns or risk being fined and sent to jail. You had to lose weight or risk a heart attack.Think about it, all the times in your past when you finally managed to do something really tough that you were proud of,was it a must for you at the time? I’m sure it was.Unfortunately, we end up doing only what is necessary to survive and live a mundane life. Since living an exceptional life is not a must, we never take enough action to do it.

Now, think of all the things you always wanted to do and achieve but never managed to. Think of all the desires and dreams that you’ve put off to a point that you have given up on them.Be honest with yourself. Was it a must for you to have achieved, or something that would have been ‘nice’ to have?Was it achieving an ideal weight? Starting your own business?Achieving a career performance target? Learning a foreign language? Working in a foreign country? Aiming for an MBA?

It should be very obvious that the reason you have not taken action and done whatever it took was because these goals never became a must for you. They were never a necessity that moved all the way up your list of priorities to kick you into action.The only way we will ever achieve our dreams and live an exceptional quality of life is when we raise our ‘level of acceptance’.

                  I here by share some experience how this has worked for me ,this is about how I learned to read the Language (Tamil), Though I am from the Tamil community I was educated in the English medium. There were many Tamil magazines in my home which my father used to read ,Since I was not able to read tamil only I used to see the pictures in the magazines During my studying period in mysore ,I came through books of swami Sukhabodhananda through my roommate. while going through the book I read a sentence-greated history in Tamil Literature by selling millions of book by the Title ”Manase Relax Please”, coincidently the part II articles used to future in the one of the Tamil magazines .As I was much influenced by his books, I was very much eager to read, but I didn’t Know how to read Tamil. I used to think how to read those articles.

                  During my vacations one day I decided to learn  Tamil and I brought How to learn Tamil in 21 days.I started with total involvement and used to read the Day and night. ,used to write and read frequently I used to visualize the letters and when ever there was Opportunity I would try to read the magazines letter by letter,skiping here and there. I used to eat ,drink and sleep with the Language ,After 21 days I was able to read little ,whenever I see any magazines ,books,newspaper, film posters etc I would try to read them after some months of practice I was able to read with ease .Now whenever I see any Tamil Magazines , newspaper my mind would start reading automatically. Now my subconscious has been activated to read automatically.

                         I think I have used many of of the ideas presented in my earlier blogs with out being aware about them earlier like the Thought vibration,Law of attraction,visualisation, Autosuggestion, wish or should to Must laws etc. I am very Fortunate to be motivated  by swami Sukhabodhananda and use must law to learn the Tamil Language .